Never got time to sit down and write , last month has been serving me different, I was so busy doing all odds and ends and I hope this month is better , recently I read a book called women in sixties , I could sense the women at home in the characters of the book , why Indian women become so selfish and senseless in their sixties , may be a crude way of putting it that they are not able to empathise and being so self centered but it is the fact , the reason being they have always been leading a sacrificial life , without even thinking about themselves , when they get some free time , they sit back to think about their past and their life style , they tend to feel bitter want to rebel and react in a funny way which has not been their forum in all the past years , women in the westclearly distinguish their space and the family space that they donot undergo this kind of stress that they carry on their lives to suit their own thinking and freedom that they donot have much to repent and feel sorry for , instead of we becoming the same persons in our sixties , we should try and create our own space , do little things that would please us the most , create our own circle and try to enjoy ,otherwise we would also become the topic for discussion among our children , we can be , but not on a negative note . I was listening to chinmaya's value for life , here is the quote If every family took care of their children and brought them up well, with good values, this world will be a much better place and also this is the best service we can do to this society.I was really thrilled to see the same words from sujatha my dear friend , I want to wind up for today