God in you

Each day is a bunch of stress, happiness, tiredness,sleep, hunger,hatred etc

but try to take off a peel from there to appreciate God and spend a little time with God

the little time will grow to a big time in a week , bigger time in a month and most of your time with God after a year , am sure this will happen , and I am the testimony , it is not that you should keep working on religious rituals , practice goodness , be selfless, helpful, humble, generous, and of all things GOD FEARING, feel God's presence in every action you do , assess yourself systematically to ensure that you have not trespassed your conscience ,truthfulness and honesty , with a little effort if you could accomplish helping someone every day , it gives you so muCCCCCCCccccccccccch of satisfaction and I practice this almost everyday to have a peaceful sleep , perfection right from cooking to keeping home and mending children will take us a long way in life when perfection complemented by sincerity there cannot be a better world than ours

Rituals and ceremony

today was too hectic after my FIL's ceremony , do we have to undergo this fatigue to reciprocate our love for a person , I always used to deeply think , I have concluded on one point, I cannot enforce my ideas and ideals on the past generation, but I have seriously firmed up on one issue , which is not to make my children perform any ritual after I die , nothing is sudden in our lives , everything is predetermined and by saying this I am not creating any bad omen as this topic of discussion always has spread bad waves at home , but believe me , I have been seriously thinking on this , our relationship wtih our children is UNCONDITIONAL , and I feel that we should never make them suffer for our sake , It is our duty to give them the best and remain without expecting anything in return , bringing up children is not a barter trade , and we need not fix up a feeling that they should take care of us in future , let them have their own space , make them realise that they can lean on you when they are in a problem , give them the best , love them the most , don't tell them that " I did so much for you, You should definitely do this"

instead talk to them in a way that they should be spontaneous in showering affection on you

Iam not trying to impose or influence any one on my thought, this has been my contemplation , happy that I was able to pen after a lo..........ng ...............tiring day

Message for the New year



Every year each one of us take resolutions before new year and after new year , how many of us

put them into shape and take it forward , the answer is a very faint "Yes" from most of us

Why ? it is very easy to think but very difficult to act , but resolutions become more complimentary if you exercise them , I think we have to pull our socks up to carry on and make resolutions happen , This year is going to be a very promising year , and it will take us really forward in our lives , it is a year with blessings and mind you blessings in manyfolds , I can vouch this statement of mine , I only pray God that everyone should have a sense of responsibility and well being. What is the use of doing wrong to a person who does wrong to you ? instead learn to forgive and do your best to others God will do the rest and bless you abundantly
sigining off for the day with a great satisfaction of having tried my new year resolution