acceptance

Of late , I hear various instances from various friends regarding the behaviour of children especially in adolescence dealing with a teen ager is not a joke , they waste time watching tv , reading books , when we say they feel bad and start fighting , any food cooked always ends up in a topic for contradiction and controversy , it is not only me , most of my friends face the same problem , my son is a perfectionist when it comes to studies , but I have started wondering why should he lose so much of temper with all at home for trivial issues , every day I discuss this issue with my husband ( most of the times he is not available in town) the best way according to him is to JUST IGNORE as it is a passing phase , my daughter and my son cannot see eye to eye even on a single issue but they are so united when they have to fight !!! , fighting for tv channel , place in the sofa , for food to be served first for every issue that will appear in front of them , though it is sometimes fun , sometimes it really gets on your nerves , when you have old people around you always asking questions it becomes all the more tough to balance , I feel we should keep the best solution for all these probs in front of us is ACCEPTANCE , accept anything that comes in your way , be patient to deal with all types of behaviour , requires a lot of effort , am sure home will be more harmonious